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My Philosophy

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I believe that death should be a personal experience, not the cold, removed, clinical passing that society taught us to fear.  It is the last journey we will take in this world and we should make the most of it.

We all deserve the death we want, to be supported in our wishes, to have our dignity intact. We can choose where we die and create the environment that will bring us the most peace.

 

Death care can combine modern medicine with caring and compassion; the two need not be mutually exclusive.

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Media Interviews

CBC Life Unrehearsed

Click the MP3 file below to listen to the interview

death doula talk on CJAD-Life Unrehearsed
00:00 / 17:10

My Story

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I have lived my life taking care of others whenever needed. My empathy has led me to sense others’ distress and help in any way I can. I believe I have been on this path for many years, and that being a death doula is my calling.

I have been present at the passing of far too many loved ones:  actively involved in the care and support of dying family members, from being present for appointments, to cleaning and dressing, and providing information and guidance and, lastly, to offering support until their last breath.

After seeing me in so many death situations, a friend observed how comforted people have been by my presence. I was unsure how to translate that into something useful, until I read an article about Death Doulas. That moment changed my life! Everything came together and I saw how everything that I am can finally be put to use, in service to others. All of my caring, compassion and comfort (and a passion for medical research and knowledge) can be channeled into being a death doula.

Training

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Certified Thanadoula

Contemplative End Of Life Care program 2019

Institute of Traditional Medicine

Death Doula

End-Of-Life Doula Program 2020

Douglas College

Certified Community Interventionist

Psychological First Aid  2020

Johns Hopkins University

Funeral Celebrant Training

Certified Celebrants Association of Canada 2021

Grief Recovery Method Specialist

Greif Recovery Institute 2021

Johns Hopkins University

CBC Daybreak

Click on the link to listen to the interview

​https://www.cbc.ca/listen/live-radio/1-15/clip/15830521

Tout Seinplement Podcast

Click  here E08 Vocation thanadoula...l'accompagnement vers la sérénité to listen to the interview (in French)

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Tel: 514-777-2219

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